This concept can also be related to moments when we, as parents, find ourselves angry with our children. Such instances leave us feeling empty and bad, and the children likely feel the same way. It’s as though we’re removing stars from our own and our children’s buckets, dependent on the intensity of our feelings. 

Our emotional state directly influences the number of stars and the energy we have in our buckets.

The book, besides being an excellent teaching tool about how to behave towards other children or even strangers, can significantly strengthen the bond between you and your children, prompting profound discussions. It allows us to step into their world and empathize with their experiences. We can understand what happened to them during the day and how they feel, and in return, share our feelings. This process promotes mutual understanding and camaraderie. I strongly recommend using this book as a valuable resource to cultivate values and foster a deeper connection with your children.